EJ_Mastery

In Taoist sexuality writings they say, the woman is like water and the man is like
fire. What normally happens is the water puts out the fire too quickly, the man is left
exhausted and the woman is frustrated. They say there are in fact nine levels of a
woman's orgasm, nine levels that she goes through before she's fully nourished
sexually before her Shakti, her sexual spiritual energy is fully awakened. Most
women have their first orgasm at level four, the man ejaculates and the other five
levels are rarely reached. We as conscious men, as extraordinary lovers need to be
able to make love as long as necessary to satisfy our woman and at the same time
reach higher orgasmic states ourselves.

A male can increase and expand the amount of ecstasy he can have and at the same
time increase the length of time he is able to make love so that his partner has a
chance of reaching higher states. Ejaculation control is an essential skill to master so
that during lovemaking, instead of ejaculating at the first peak of energy which a lot
of men do, they can learn instead to peak with that energy and use techniques to
spread that energy throughout the entire body. Then as the urgency for ejaculation
subsides, continue to make love again until reaching another peak - much higher
than the first peak and then he can use techniques to peak and spread the energy
again. As he Continues to do this, reaching higher and higher peaks of ecstasy and
at the same time his beloved is feeling that energy and is being warmed up to higher
orgasmic states.

There are two exercises, two techniques that will help with ejaculation control. One
is P.C. Muscle exercises and the other is the breath.

These exercises are also beneficial for women to extend their orgasmic response,
taking more pleasure for herself and to give more pleasure to her partner. The P.C.
muscle is the major muscle of contraction in both sexes for orgasm, so strengthening
it increases sensations of pleasure.

The P.C. muscle extends from the base of the spine where it is connected to the
coccyx, to the front of the body where it is connected to the pubic bone.

A good way to locate the P.C. or love muscle for yourself is that next time you are
urinating try to stop the flow of urination in mid stream. This will give you the
feeling of activating the muscle. then later on in your own private space practice
tensing and releasing the muscle several times so that you get the sense of how to do
it you can know. It is a good idea to incorporate these P.C. Muscle exercises into
your daily routine, associating them with some particular activity you do
independent of your lovemaking sessions. Then these exercises will become habitual
and you won't have to set aside a special time to practice. For example you can
practice while you drive or travel too and from work. No one will know you are
doing it and it can be quite enjoyable.
Once a man has a strong P/C he can spread the sexual energy up and through his
body during lovemaking so he can experience wave after wave of peak pleasure
without coming so that he can make love for as long as he chooses, maybe even
hours!

Another secret is working with your breath. What most men do as excitement builds up is hold
their breath as they get close to climax. If men are to reverse the flow of sexual energy the best
way is to breathe slowly, deeply and rhythmically. Author: Kerry Riley

Pubococcygeus Muscle P.C.
Muscles of the lower abdomen.
Latin musculus pubococcygeus
Gray's subject #119 424
Origin back of the pubis and from
the anterior part of the obturator
fascia
Insertion coccyx and sacrum
Artery:
Nerve: S3, S4
Action: controls urine flow and
contracts during orgasm

Lingam Massage - Ejaculation Control
When it appears the receiver is about to ejaculate, backing off and allowing the done
several times. Remember, the goal is not orgasm. Men can learn the art of
ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close to ejaculation and then backing off
on the stimulation.

The lingam may or may not go soft as this technique is performed. Do not worry if
you do not get hard again. You will find that the lingam will get hard, then go soft,
get hard again, etc. This is actually a desirable effect of a tantric experience, like
riding a wave, bobbing up and down. Hardness and softness are two ends of the
pleasure spectrum.
Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge to ejaculate. Eventually,
ejaculatory mastery will allow a male to make love as long as he wants and a man
can become multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen. Author Jeffery Tey

The tantric evolved man understands that the longer he holds his seed within him, the more power
and energy he gathers. When serving Goddess from a place of high personal power, he joins with
her at high frequencies, becoming an equal counterpart to the Goddess he serves. A tantric union is a
very real connection based on the true expression of souls.

Ejaculation Mastery

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Taoist believe that when a man releases his seed, it makes him weak, when the man
sustains from release with the orgasm, he increases his virility.....

If the receiver chooses to release at the peak, he will be encouraged to breathe
especially if he has come close and held back at least six times before releasing.

Holding back six times charges the sexual battery, with a tremendous energy know as
the Kundalini. It is then the receivers choice as to where he wants to send this energy --
out with the release, or inward for other uses.
Men who master ejaculation are able to channel Kundalini energy into other areas of
their being.
When the massage is finished a towel bath will be given as you drift off into a
meditative state, laying quietly and floating in pure bliss for while............

Conclusion

Tantric Massages For a Man
Ejaculatory Mastery

Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn
to separate The result is an expanded sex life.